With studies such as the Duke Divinity School’s “Clergy Health Initiative” and The New York Times article “Taking a break from the Lord’s work” it is apparent that clergy burnout is on the rise.
Pastors are often expected to be available 24/7. In addition to preparing weekly sermons and leading worship, they perform a myriad of duties that chip away at their time and personal lives.
Something is lost in the daily grind and needs to be replenished. People need to be re-created periodically, replenished, built back up after a time of hard work.
Some suggestions
Here are ways to help you re-create:
- Participate in physical activity and recreation. Activity can also foster social opportunities and contribute to mental health by reducing stress, combating depression and building emotional well-being.
- Keep a regular schedule. Go to bed on time and get up on time to start the day rested and unrushed.
- Relax. Bodies aren’t made to go non-stop. We need sleep to regenerate, but we also need to consciously stop and sometimes just sit. Calm your mind.
- Say “No” occasionally. This is especially important for projects that really won’t fit into your schedule or that will compromise your mental or physical health.
- Delegate tasks to capable others.
- Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don’t lump the hard things all together.
- Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can’t do anything about a situation forget it
- Having problems? Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don’t wait to worry about issues until it’s time to go to bed.
- Remember that less can be more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
- Allow extra time to do things and go places.
- Laugh and laugh some more.
- Take your work seriously but yourself not at all.
- Give thanks. Every night before going to bed, think of one thing you’re grateful for that you’ve never been grateful for in the past.
- Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.
If you don't take yourself seriously, you will not be able to laugh at yourself and that's not good.
An old Spanish proverb is a good Sabbath motto: "How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then to rest afterward."